13 warning signs of passive-aggressive behavior

According to the news in Psychology Today, the most common symptoms of passive-aggressive behavior can be listed as follows:

These people may say they don't feel anger to avoid conflict, but their behavior reveals that they are actually angry.

He/she reluctantly completes tasks or postpones them altogether, using this behavior as a silent protest.

They express their dissatisfaction nonverbally, but they're reluctant to discuss the problem. Even without saying anything, they exude a negative atmosphere. This attitude is often accompanied by claims that everything is fine.

Unable to confront a problem directly, these individuals frequently express feelings of not being understood or appreciated, but they avoid giving examples.

They accumulate the negative experiences inside them, they do not express it openly but later they make it felt with their behavior.

They make comments that appear to be compliments but are actually sarcastic or derogatory.

They express their discomfort with quiet but noticeable physical behaviors such as slamming doors and putting things down hard.

Even if they say everything is fine, deep down they continue to carry anger and resentment.

They interpret their passive behavior as "maturity" or "conflict avoidance" and present this as a virtue. They resist those who express their feelings directly. They perceive conflict as frightening or uncontrollable.

When she has a problem with someone, she might make plans that push that person's boundaries, like inviting a budget-conscious friend to an expensive restaurant.

To defend himself, he avoids responsibility by saying that the other person misunderstood him.

He or she emotionally distances himself or herself from someone he or she is uncomfortable with, but doesn't explain why. The other party has a hard time understanding this.

Passive-aggressive behavior undermines trust in relationships, hinders communication, and can lead to serious problems over time. Individuals who notice this type of behavior, or those around them who behave this way, are advised to seek professional help.